Acts of service men are dangerously attractive.
Fixing problems, making sure you've eaten, charging your phone, carrying your things... that's romance to me.
I think ppl want to be liked (romantically) too quickly lol like yeah something just click and happen when you really vibe with someone. But please never forget that we don’t know each other like at all.
“But you survived” I disassociate, like a lot. My heart drops when someone raises their voice. I shut down very easily. And I'm far too observant. I always feel like a burden. I isolate often. But yeah, sure, I guess I survived.
whimsical people are whimsical because they’re hopeful. they’re always looking out for ways to romanticize life. even if you aren’t consciously spiritual, this is a highly spiritual trait, to have fun, to play with life and to invite joy by constantly noticing magic everywhere
That man child deserves every bit of misfortune that’s coming his way. Instead of chasing financial stability, becoming disciplined or working to get his life in order, he’s operating like a miserable fatherless child who’s been overcompensated by women his entire life grow up!
Yes, because no matter how much you want someone, you eventually realize that love alone cannot carry a relationship without consistency, communication, reassurance, and emotional availability. Being with someone avoidant and inconsistent can slowly drain you because you’re constantly trying to understand where you stand, overanalyzing their actions, making excuses for their distance, and holding onto potential instead of reality.
At some point, you have to choose peace over attachment. Because wanting someone deeply does not automatically mean they are healthy for you. And honestly, one of the saddest things is loving someone who only shows up when it’s convenient for them emotionally.
You can empathize with why someone is avoidant and still acknowledge that their behavior is hurting you. Understanding someone’s trauma, fears, or emotional patterns should not require abandoning your own emotional needs in the process.
Sometimes leaving is not because you stopped loving them, but because you finally realized you cannot keep carrying a relationship by yourself while hoping the other person eventually becomes ready to meet you halfway.
Embarrassed for what? Life humbled me a few times, but I never folded. Still popped out smiling. You can’t shame somebody who own their story. I said what I said!
Underrated green flag in a man is simply allowing you the space to be a girl. They encourage you to be excited about the things you're passionate about, they don't get annoyed with you when you get a little emotional, they come home with a sweet treat, they don't rush you when you get ready. It's the little things lol.
i have a friend who treats me so well that she doesn’t even know that she’s established a standard for how i let everyone else treat me, and i think that’s beautiful
When it’s time to GO & time to MOVE
The signs will be evident
Not just around you
But in your body too
& it comes to a point where you won’t be able to ignore it or pretend you don’t see or feel it.
You’ll eventually have to be obedient to what you’re being guided to do.
My friends threw me a surprise birthday party managed to get some of my family there and boiled me some crawfish
🥹✨🤞🏾 cried like a baby I’m so grateful for my village