Respectfully, I don't go above and beyond for people anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me. Reciprocity is On steroids.
Very reliant on myself these days like for emotional support and everything else for that matter, Iโve found going to people with my issues have been pointless majority of the time
Iโm learning that saying anything is saying too much, and no matter how you present things to people they will always receive it the way their mind interpreted it to themselves
Iโve been really to myself these days like really going through my feelings independently and not relying on friends or anyone really to help me work things out and I love it trust me thereโs moments of loneliness but I donโt want temporary feelers so I opt to be alone