My coworker, Day 1: "Muna, I brought food for you."
Me: "Oh, thank you, but my wife packed enough food for me."
My coworker, Day 2: "Muna, I brought food for you."
Me: "Ah, thank you! But my wife will be joining me for lunch at XOXO."
Yes, we know some women pursue married men. But as a married man, it's your responsibility not to entertain or give unnecessary attention to anyone who isn't your wife.
We all know where those boundaries can lead if they're ignored.
A lot depends on what you're willing to tolerate and the boundaries you choose to keep as a married man who respects and values his wife.