Personal pride, professionalism, personal integrity, and corporate accountability all require that you do what you need to do to demonstrate that you can be relied upon to carry your share of the load...
Personally, I would much rather have someone talk to me about an issue they have instead of causing me to hear about it later from someone who isn't even involved in the situation...
What still baffles me to this day is why others feel the need to talk about someone else behind their back?
I would love to know what kind of joy or satisfaction that brings them?
The reason why black men don't succeed as a collective is because we all try to please bosses at each other's expense, we never collaborate + we're too concerned about what's in our brothers plates, than ours. I see it with people around me everyday.
The Brazilians came out on top last night in their encounter against ASEC Mimosas, the CAF Champions League journey continues! Catch up last night action here: https://t.co/T8hRjY5tWQ
#Sundowns#DownsMimosas#CAFCL
Not that you should run around violating social norms, but when youβre not wasting energy molding your personality to someone elseβs to be accepted, youβre more likely to find people who genuinely like you for you, and those relationships are far less exhausting to keep up...
Certain persons simply will not like you not matter what you do. And no matter how likable you think you are, youβre not going to win over every person you meet.
Remember that it is impossible to please everyone...
Anyone who is trying to imitate you or undermine you is already behind you. They have decided that you are far better, smarter, and more capable than they believe they will ever be.
So there are reasonable cars going for R120K So when you are looking to buy a car its not a sudden decision right? Why don't you decide on the instalment you want to pay, then for 6 months save that instalment so you can train yourself without the contractual obligation.
While personality and charisma can be assets, the veneer dies off at some stage.When you move up ranks then it is far more about character.
Character is built by confronting your fears, understanding blind spots, and making and acting on the tough decisions.....