@fixr_co What an absolute waste of my Saturday at the @OfficialBHAFC The terrace today seeing the Whitney Tribute . It was dire . No effort made whatsoever and awful location . Such a rip off .
@DrProudman@DrJessTaylor thoughts on this. Why should the general public stand in court for a corrupt police officer who admitted mistakes . Is there a regulation that states this must happen ? It’s like standing in honour for a criminal .
Imagine being a member of the public supporting an interested party at a GROSS MISCONDUCT hearing only to be KICKED OUT cause I didn’t stroke the ACC ego. NO regulation says I’m to stand when a corrupt officer walks in the room. @warkspolice DISGUSTING!
@MitchOReilly_ Absolutely disgusting , why would you want to stand for a corrupt officer . Honestly there are no words . It’s like asking them to stand for a criminal would they heck .
@Charlot8412475@warkspolice shame on you . You know exactly what you were doing & why . Show the footage and let the public make their own minds up .
Let this sink in. The Police and Family Courts need to stop assisting in the abuse, stop framing and labelling people.
Mental health is often the first thing raised in a custody battle not because it tells the full story, but because it’s the easiest way to frame someone as unfit. It’s a quick label that shifts focus away from context and onto character, turning survival into suspicion. Anxiety becomes “instability,” exhaustion becomes “inability to cope,” and seeking help is twisted into evidence against a parent. What’s rarely acknowledged is why a parent is struggling at all maybe the trauma of leaving a controlling relationship, the reality of post-separation abuse, and the weight of working, parenting, and protecting children alone. Symptoms are examined, but the cause is ignored because it’s easier to question a parent’s stability than to confront patterns of manipulation and control.
The truth is, many parents in custody battles aren’t unfit they’re traumatised, and there is a difference. Trauma is a normal response to abnormal circumstances, not a measure of parenting ability. A parent who continues to show up, provide, protect, and love their children while acknowledging their mental health is demonstrating responsibility and resilience, not failure. Working as a single parent does not make someone incapable, and struggling does not erase the effort it takes to keep going. When mental health is weaponised, it punishes honesty and survival but the real measure of fitness is who keeps their children safe, grounded, and prioritised despite everything stacked against them.
I’m proud of me 🙏💙💙 #police #mentalhealth #cudtodybattles #familycourts
@NataliePage@Charlot8412475 Exactly this - sitting there in his suit like butter wouldn’t melt knowing he groomed you at age 15 , and having the audacity to say your the crazy one it beggars belief x
Labels matter. When authority figures get it wrong on paper, the consequences follow you for years. Records don’t just document events they influence decisions, judgments, and outcomes long after the moment has passed.
This isn’t about rewriting history. It’s about telling it accurately. Because when young people are misrepresented, when age and vulnerability are overlooked, the system doesn’t just fail once it fails repeatedly. @warkspolice #policefailures #injustice
⭐️For every parent missing their child this Christmas, Birthdays....
Not because they chose to, but because a barring order or controlling ex has silenced their voice:
Remember this:
If a child truly didn’t want contact,
The father wouldn’t have to cut calls after 2 minutes.
The father wouldn’t feel the need to monitor every conversation.
The father wouldn’t control birthday gifts or block shared moments.
The father wouldn’t shut down simple, loving connections.
Controlling fathers block contact when they are afraid of the bond between the child and the other parent or family.
That bond still exists — or he wouldn’t fight so hard to suppress it
Children don’t stop loving you.
They are just not free right now.
Hold on. 🤍🕊️
And remember this:
During these years, children are not protected.
The father holds all the power, and the system often looks away.
It makes him feel invincible… untouchable.
But control is not love — and it never lasts forever.
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@nadski65 Very similar story to @Charlot8412475 . Except she hasn’t had any contact with her boys for 4 years now & doesn’t even know where they are or if they are even alive. It’s so sad & shocking that in this day and age the draconian system enable this . So many going through this 😥
@piersmorgan@boxbollen@spencermorgan93 Imagine losing your children full stop to an abuser .Please Piers would you take a look at the family court process and report on the failures. So many parents without their children this Christmas because of these failures. I have someone who would be happy to tell her story .