“Energetic agility allows you to navigate all moments from a point of view that is conscious and loving such that you can become the co-creator of a relationship worthy of calling sacred.”
Playing With Fire
Your sexual desire is infinite.
So you breathe that through your body. You express your desire. She might be like, "Not now." It doesn't matter. My desire is there, and I'm not actually needing you to do this right now.
Look your lover in the eyes and say, “I'm going to love you in the way that I was never loved. I'm going to give you that love and that presence through the hole in my heart.”
What leaves the deepest mark is the quality of your love and presence.
Sex gets stifled when it becomes rote, routine, predictable, and boring.
Develop this range: I can be fierce. I can be playful. I can be gentle. I can be hard. I can be rough.
We're learning how to liberate ourselves sexually.
“You can have an intimate relationship where you feel like powerful partners, your sex life thrills you, and your commitment to love through hardship accelerates your spiritual growth.”
Playing With Fire
It's the casual ways you behave around your partner that are invisibly killing polarity.
Pause. Take a breath. Feel your body. Can you feel how your breath gets a little bit deeper or more intentional?
“Abide in your practice when you’d rather quit, and you will see that your intimate relationship becomes a profound and beautiful vehicle for your spiritual growth.”
Playing With Fire