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'Le jour est paresseux mais la nuit est active' / In glitch fluent

[milio_ @JustinPotard]

Je cherche le texte "William #Burroughs surpris en possession du Chant du vieux marin de Samuel Taylor #Coleridge"

Searching for "#William Burroughs caught in possession of the rime of the ancient mariner"

By Johny #Brown and/or la traduction de Marie-Paule #Ramo

[𝓓𝓮𝓵 @delonperc]

IF YOU WANT TO KNOW WHO THE REAL NARCISSIST IS AND WHO THE ACTUAL VICTIM IS, Look at who stands alone.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

How dare you blame me for my reaction when it was your actions that put me in that position in the first place? You made choices that hurt me, crossed boundaries you knew would affect me, and then acted as if my response was the real problem. I’m not saying I handled everything perfectly, but it’s unfair to paint me as the villain while ignoring the reasons I was hurting. You can criticize my reaction, but don’t forget what caused it.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

Why does it feel like empaths always end up attracting narcissists?.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

it’s so frustrating how abusers are always surrounded by a whole clan of people who justify and validate their behavior. so the victim inevitably gets hurt not just by the abuser but by everyone around the abuser who essentially did not give a fuck about the victim’s wellbeing at all. honestly disgusting

[milio_ @JustinPotard]

@lamechefoll c'était quel film ?

[milio_ @JustinPotard]

@NedoTour Il propose une solution, il aura fait ses heures au final, il ose se positionner, je vois aucune raison de dire non ni même au pire de trouver ça abusé qu'il demande.

[milio_ @JustinPotard]

@playbsg C'est normal que la demo soit down ou c'est un bug de mon coté ?

[Parental Alienation @PAcumbria]

Narcissists silence your voice,
Then call you “difficult” for speaking up.
They isolate you from support,
Then blame you for being “needy.”
They rewrite history,
Then gaslight you for remembering.
It’s not confusion.
It’s control.

[Libriscent @libriscent]

Being labeled "the problem" when you start recognizing abusive dynamics is a common tactic used to avoid accountability and stay in control.

[𝕄𝕒_ℤ𝕠𝕟𝕕𝕠 @Nomagugu_xo]

Manipulation is when someone ignores their own disrespectful behaviour but blames you for how you react to it.

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

Most toxic patterns are pushing you until you break, then blaming you for the reaction. They ignore, dismiss, and trigger the same wounds, until you finally snap. Then suddenly, you're the problem.
But being pushed past your limit isn't weakness. Sometimes your reaction is just the result of a fire they kept lighting, not something you created.

[Kush @kush_147]

Manipulative people don't say sorry. They reframe the story until your reaction looks worse than their behaviour. Suddenly, you're explaining yourself while they walk away clean

[Libriscent @libriscent]

People say “mental health matters” but what many actually imply is “please struggle in a way that doesn’t inconvenience anyone.”

[Libriscent @libriscent]

don't forget they could have HELPED you but decided to dehumanize you instead

[milio_ @JustinPotard]

@SJancy Jamais entendu un anglophone utiliser shampooing pour nommer le savon pour cheveux, c'est un faux anglicisme. A la limite ils l'utilisent pour désigner l'action de se laver les cheveux. Le mot en anglais c'est "shampoo" ou par abus de langage "conditioner" (l'après-shampooing).

[Parental Alienation @PAcumbria]

A narcissist's idea of a "perfect relationship" goes like this: They do whatever they want. You say nothing.

They expect unlimited freedom for themselves... and unlimited tolerance from you.

[milio_ @JustinPotard]

@libriscent "So you're telling me that : [summarizing the exact opposite of what you just said]"

[LaShonda 🌸 @firstladyships]

A narcissist doesn’t ruin your life.
They convince you to hand it over.

Your time.
Your peace.
Your confidence.

And when you’re empty,
they call you “too much.”

That’s not love.
That’s emotional theft.

[𝙰𝚈𝙾𝙳𝙴𝙻𝙴 @ay0dele_]

God please keep me away from another lying partner with a victim complex who denies their mistakes and manipulate you into believing everything is your fault.