My husband cheated on me ONCE. One time in seven years together, and suddenly I was expected to “hear him out” and “work through it” because “people make mistakes.” But when I packed my things and left, I became the villain for not forgiving him fast enough.
A year later, he still tells people I “threw away” our marriage over one mistake, like seven years of loyalty from me meant nothing the moment he decided to betray it.
Funny how betrayal is called a mistake when men do it, but a woman is branded a monster forever.
finding out you do "nothing" for someone you do things for, because they're pissed you won't tolerate their bullshit is always an interesting turn of events.
time to give up on whatever it is I wasn't doing and enjoy this free time!
I highly recommend you find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who’s super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.
DO NOT MAKE LIFE DECISIONS BASED ON YOUR BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND. Do not stay close to home for them, do not skip opportunities for them, do not pick a university that's close for them. They not the world! Grow yourself, expand your horizons.
not being able to give a woman your full undivided attention while she’s literally in labor with your child is a sign that you probably arent actually ready for a kid but thats just my hot take