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That person you are missing right now is making a conscious decision every day to not have you in their life & that should be all the closure you need.
i'm in love with this quote:
"if you're persistent, you'll get it. if you're consistent, you'll keep it. and if you're grateful, you'll attract more of it."
Once the attachment fades, they stop looking like your soulmate. Suddenly, they're just an avoidant with a massive ego, bad communication skills, no accountability, and always playing the victim.
i loved you without keeping score. I showed up for you on days when you had nothing to give back. I listened to your silence as much as your words, and I stayed present even when things got difficult between us. My care for you was never tied to what I could receive in return.
I wasn’t perfect, but my intentions were always clean. I wanted to be the person you could lean on without fear of judgment. I believed in your growth and your healing, even when you struggled to believe in yourself. I gave you the kind of love that doesn’t demand anything back only that you felt safe and seen.
One day, you’ll look back and understand how rare it is to have someone who loves you like that. When others start showing you love that comes with conditions or convenience, you’ll remember how I loved you even when it wasn’t easy. And you’ll realize that what you lost wasn’t just me it was someone who genuinely wanted nothing but the best for you.
I ain’t change, I just stopped giving people more than what they give me. I used to go out my way, keep understanding, and keep showing up even when it wasn’t mutual. Now I pay attention and move off that. If you distant, I’m distant. If you switch up, I fall back. People swear you changed when you finally stop overplaying your part.
A healthy relationship is wild because you go in thinking you’re looking for love and begin realizing you also needed growth, accountability, better communication, more patience, and a whole lot of self-awareness.
Please appreciate your relationship while you still have each other. Don’t let anger, ego, or misunderstandings ruin something beautiful. Every couple fights, but what matters is choosing to communicate, understand, and fix things together instead of walking away.
Life is too short to waste time staying mad. If you truly love each other, work through the hard days as a team. One day, you might regret not trying when you still had the chance.
Their final gift to you was repeating their pattern one last time so you could finally see that despite all their potential, this is who they choose to be
One thing I've learned this year:
People can genuinely care about you and still not have the capacity to love you the way you need to be loved.
That's why self-respect is important. Sometimes choosing yourself means walking away from something you wish could've worked.