People really do fumble you b/c they don't know what to do with you. They never experienced someone of your caliber before so they treat you how they would normally treat everyone else & that's exactly where they lose you at...
One thing about me.. Iβll never ask why someone didnβt acknowledge me.. milestones, birthdays, congratulations, whatever. Just think about how that sounds: asking someone why they didnβt care enough. I take s* for what it is. My dignity > chasing explanations.