Reminding myself that detachment doesn’t mean that I don’t care or have love for that person.
It just means that I’m freeing myself from the power that connection once had over me, and the power that I *thought* I had over that connection.
It means I’m allowing myself to have peace and move forward without anxiety about how it’ll all play out in the end. Instead I’m connecting with this inner knowing that I’m good either way… maybe even better without it.
And when you’re no longer trying to control the whole situation, you have more energy to pour into other things and people that pour back into you.
Let things be. Let things go. Shift your focus and give your energy to things / people that bring you more peace.
Remember that no matter how much I like you, I like myself more. Even at my highest form of being obsessed with you, I’m still gonna choose myself if you not acting accordingly.