Talking with the same person all day and night and never getting bored because you love them that much, and the best part is waiting for their reply and seeing their name pop up. That's a beautiful feeling noh?
Date someone who is interested in you. I mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you, someone who wants to find every scar upon your body & learn where each one came from. Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are.
Lately, you have lost interest in socializing. Sometimes, you would lock yourself in your room and watch movies. All on your own & away from everyone. These days, you enjoy your own company. You're content being alone and doing the things you love without someone else's presence.
I swear you hit an age where the late nights and hangovers aren't fun anymore. All you wanna do is travel, stock money, bond with the people you love and build your future.
The right person won't make you overthink but will give you assurance that you need. They won't make you feel like you have to beg for love coz they'll already be loving you the way you should be loved. Bare minimum in a relationship comes naturally, you don't have to ask for it.
It's so great when you get too comfortable with your partner noh? Where you actually tell them they're your peace, home, comfort zone, safe space, or happy place to be with when you're sad. Feeling like 10 hours is just 5 minutes. Let's admit that we got the therapy we all need.
Do you ever just miss a bond you had with someone? Like, regardless of what happened between you two, you miss the conversations, the laughs you guys had over the stupidest things, or the way that they were there for you when you weren't at the best. The little things matter.
I think it's not just about sex. Don't get me wrong sex is great but when you have a deep or when you feel that emotional intimate connection and when you feel strong, that's the part that makes it hard to let go.
Date someone who knows how to apologize and take accountability. Someone who doesn't invalidate your feelings, who won't gaslight you, and someone who doesn't make you feel bad for being vulnerable.
Having sex isn't everything noh? Have y'all tried just lying down, playing with someone's hands while they talk about life? Those are the moments to live for. Deep talk and understanding someone's background, opening up to someone, and actually falling for them more & more.
You play yourself every time you beg someone for bare minimum things like love, attention, affection and reciprocation. The right person you wont even have to ask.
Sa totoo lang when you finally realize your worth, you stop begging for attention from people who let you down, you start distancing yourself from people who never see your worth. Minsan being alone helps you realize that not every person you love to be around helps you grow.
Basta if someone is trying to be there for you. Then, by all means, Let them. It is a blessing to have someone look after you. It is a beautiful thing to have someone who genuinely cares.
If you find someone who makes you smile, who checks up on you often to see if you're okay. Who watches out for you and wants the best for you, who loves and respects you. Don't let them go. People like that are hard to find.
Basta get a partner who's mature enough to educate you and mature enough to accept your flaw. remember? looks are everywhere but matured mindset is rare.
SPOILING A WOMAN DOESN'T ALWAYS INCLUDE MONEY.
It could be your time, attention, or just being there emotionally, physically and mentally. Money comes and goes but how you make her feel stays forever.