Nobody likes you when you're depressed.
Plain and simple. We can talk all day about mental health and how important it is, but the moment you are depressed, people start to distance themselves. They see you as negative, a burden, and someone too heavy to handle.
If women don’t lower their standards soon, they’ll die alone in their clean homes, with their regulated nervous systems, balanced PH, clean toilets, friends that support them, & a peace like no other. They better chill..
my mom was telling me today that there's no disappointment when you accept things or people for what they are. but you don’t always have to cut people off when they don’t meet your expectations sometimes you just have to adjust the relationship + accept their capacity.
I think in order to release or let emotions out, you have to be able to identify that you’re feeling them and what the emotion is exactly first which is difficult for people.
So many walk around completely numb!
I genuinely believe that for a lot of men, their friends need to be in fully committed and faithful relationships for them to be on the same wavelength/desire to be in one as well.
Firm believer that you determine the level of respect a mf is willing to give you. If your first thought with me isnt “she aint goin fa thattt”, ima show u exactly whyit shouldve been. 🧠