i have been ugly, broke, no job, no HOME + still had people try to play power games with me — if you’re a 10Her you have to understand that you will always be someone’s one sided competition + standard of success even when you think you’re losing because you just GOT IT LIKE THAT
like we need to push the needle forward on the attachment style conversation. it’s getting boring and stale. imagine being fucked up about other folks trauma and longing for love when empires are crumbling. lol. very silly.
most ppl i know who are super critical of ppl with alleged attachment styles are actually the most avoidant people i know. lol. I wish instead of dog piling on folks who are obviously deeply traumatized, we would choose to be empathetic & humanize them like we do other survivors.
@AfsaRosette They will sabotage the good things and push good people away. It's unfamiliar, it doesn't feel right.
Why should this person love me when no one else does. So I will test, manipulate and sabotage this person until they prove to me that I am unlovable and leave me. Very sad!