let people reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. let them reintroduce their hobbies, dreams, and soul. familiarity shouldn't be a cage. love them for who they are now, not just who they were then.
Making friends in your 30s is sooooooo fun, you be learning so much lore about them daily lol. Because what do you mean you got a divorce when you were 24, you have a degree in marine biology and Vybz Kartel is your cousin once removed?
there is nothing i hate more in this world than someone who is habitually late. like i cannot put into words how angry it makes me, especially when they don’t even give a heads up or address it. i do not care if it is ableist either, do sumn to break the cycle bitch!!!!
There’s a certain type of privacy & alone time I require in order for me to feel like I’m still functioning and operating as an individual. I cannot do the codependency or enmeshment.