I think every woman hits that season where she's not angry anymore, just aware. You see people clearly. You move differently. You don't explain.. you just shift. That's maturity mixed with grace.
Please stop telling people y’all business when y’all going through hardships. You can't imagine the conversations being had with people y’all trust, in rooms y’all never even been in. And not one of them being a helping hand. People really get off seeing you down. Stay quiet, stick through it and trust nobody.
girl,you are living proof that a woman can go through the worst and most difficult situations in life,and still remain kind and full of love. be proud of your growth. be proud of where you're at. you have come so far💕
Someone once told me , “you will know how much a man values you by the way he treats you, not by what he tells you”
I still think about that sometimes.
as I get older, I'm starting to realize that the purest form of love is consideration. when someone thinks about how things would make you feel. in any bond how much they care about you is found in how much they consider you.
Sometimes, people who once had full access to you forget how rare that access truly is. They move carelessly, never realising the doors you opened for them remained closed to almost everyone else. They never understood your depth because they never had to earn it. Only after they became just another name, just another face in the crowd, did they begin to feel the distance. The saddest part isn’t losing them. It’s realising how deeply you let them into your world while they barely recognised the privilege of being there. Access to a person is a privilege and is never guaranteed.
Sis! There’s a MAN out there that’s on everything you on, wanna go places with you, text back in a timely manner. Wants to see you succeed, wanna see you happy, love your energy & adds to it.. simply just loves everything about you. STOP wasting time & energy on people you gotta force to do those things. GO ON WITH YOUR LIFE ✨💕
Real beauty is waking up every day and choosing yourself again. Keeping your word. Protecting your energy. Caring for your mind, body, and soul. That’s a glow no filter can create. 🦋✨
You probably prefer isolation over company because being alone is less lonely than being around people who constantly remind you of how different you are.
I’m not available for people who pick and choose when they wanna be available for me. I used to accept inconsistent effort because I cared more about keeping the connection than paying attention to the pattern. Not anymore. If you only show up when it’s convenient for you, I’m gonna assume that’s where I stand. I don’t chase people, and I don’t compete for anybody’s time. Either it’s mutual or it’s nothing at all.
inconsistency is a turn off to me. Don't be all over me one minute & then distant the next. im loyal to effort & actions, NOT empty ass promises.