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Women shouldn’t be expected to give up their surnames after marriage. In fact, it makes far more sense for children to carry their mother’s surname.
A father contributes 50% of the genetic material, but 100% of the pregnancy, risk, labour, birth, and early survival of the child comes from the mother’s body. Her health, her blood, her organs, her hormones, her literal life on the line. If anyone’s legacy deserves to be carried forward, it is the person who creates, grows, births, and often raises the child. A husband’s surname isn’t inherently more “family” than a wife’s. It’s just a patriarchal custom that treats men as lineage and women as vessels. We don’t have to keep repeating it.
@k_tsakani I'm so sorry you going through this, it's really not a nice feeling. Please leave at the first red flag, this is a form of abuse ngwana ko hae. There's is definitely something/one making him not to reply to your text. It might be hard but please leave
He is safe uyafeba qha lowo!! The relationship is still very new you shouldn’t already be feeling this much anxiety and uncertainty. If someone can go 24 hours without a simple message or call back, that’s already showing you the tone of the relationship. Honestly, you deserves peace not confusion. It’s better for you to end it now before you get more attached and get hurt even worse.
@k_tsakani He’s testing your boundaries- leave him in the dust because if you pass this “understanding slima” test he’s gonna know he can get away with way worse things.
@k_tsakani Lol as a man, I believe there's no job or occupation that can make even the simplest form of communication impossible because we deal with other people in our lives,an sms, 1 Min phone call or something. Lol tell him it's the last or you'll move on. We are adults my sister.