At times I'm ashamed to be a woman. The stories I hear of how women abuse the fathers of their children to get back at them; how they deprive children of relationships with their dads. If someone doesn't love you anymore does torturing them and your own child in the process help?
@CityofCT so indeed you're just there to make Cape Town pretty for those who afford. Back to the days of Apartheid you've sent us. Just that like that. Wow wow. Not sure why I'm even surprised.
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@lordwickdiens @Tina_Hokwana I get your point. Just remember a child relies on her parents for everything, well being, self worth who they become 4 the world. It's more than just maintenance. It's feeling like they're not a mistake or a burden. There are better ways to fight ex battles than punish the child.
@lordwickdiens @Tina_Hokwana We probably wouldn't even have such a problem if men could separate the mother's deeds from the children's needs. You don't even have to give her money, pay the child's school fees, buy clothes, food pay toward rent or bond. Do SOMETHING. 2 wrongs don't make a right.
@lordwickdiens @Tina_Hokwana How do u decide after a child is born you hate the mom? What's the child got to do with it? Better yet; if you hate someone y sleep with them? Or for heavens sake at least use a condom?? Hello???
@lordwickdiens @Tina_Hokwana No bro. The kids are the key. You cannot ethically hate a child because of what his or her mother does. That's unfair and cruel. This argument you make is the EXACT reason y fathers think it's ok to ill treat their children or not maintain them. It's a generational brainwashing
@Tina_Hokwana There's always 2 sides to every story but resigning is extreme and speaks of revenge and being stubborn. We had a decent conversation with baby mama after 6 years of back n forth n absurd demands from her. Mediating that conversation was tough but at least now everyone's on board
Men and the lengths they will go to for revenge is appalling. This needs to be treated as a criminal offence. If people need to be policed to use their brains then so be it.
It’s my birthday today and I’ve only lived not even a fraction of my life of a writer - I am taking heed. I will write this year. No matter what! @MsTerryMcMillan thank you and congratulations!!
OMG. On the verge of tears. Just received an email from my agent advising me that they've just sent royalty payments to me for my first novel, MAMA, and for HOW STELLA GOT HER GROOVE BACK. The amount is not important.
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Miss Universe 2019 @zozitunzi on smashing through Eurocentric beauty standards, repping her small village in South Africa, and plans for using her platform during her reign.
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