I love recommending things to people. Where did I do my nails? Where did I get my hair done? Oh, this dress?
First of all, I’m flattered you asked! I will never gatekeep, everyone deserves to look good!!!!
people lack accountability, then be like “you could've just talked to me”. no, i couldn't. you don't listen. you deflect. you gaslight. you make me feel like i'm the problem for bringing it up. so no, i stayed silent to protect my peace, not because i didn't want to fix.
Don’t borrow shame from the past. You are not that person anymore and you simply didn't know better. No reason to beat yourself up for it. All you can do is really do better.