Breakups hurt, yeah.
But you know what hurts even more? Staying. Staying and trying to “make it work” with someone who has shown you over and over that they don’t value you, don’t prioritize you, and don’t care about your feelings. Begging for bare minimum. Hoping they’ll change. Ignoring the proof right in front of you. That kind of pain drags out way longer than a breakup ever could. Sometimes the real heartbreak isn’t losing them it’s realizing you stayed too long trying to convince someone to love you the right way. THAT’S what really hurts.
me destrói muito que ninguém nunca me amou ao ponto de postar uma foto só minha no instagram com uma música romântica e uma legenda clichê dizendo q me ama muito em uma terça feira qualquer só pq sim
Never give loyalty to someone who:
• Disrespected you
• Lied repeatedly
• Broke your trust
• Took your effort for granted
• Only valued you when convenient
People reveal themselves through patterns.
coming to your senses and snapping out of the obsession with a situationship is actually so embarrassing. like why did i text you so many times and why was i so desperate for the bare minimum from a person who obviously didn't want me. it really feels like you're in a trance and can't break free until you unleashed all your crazy.
a man is loud with what he wants. if you have to ask for the little things like getting flowers, being posted, or for him to simply act like he cares, he doesn't want you.
a woman's brain cannot relax until she feels physically & emotionally safe. many men don't understand how much energy women expend checking whether they're safe. providing an environment where she can turn off that part of her brain allows her to truly settle into her femininity
Unfortunately they’re not always gonna be brave enough to tell you they are no longer vibing with you,sometimes you just have to read the energies and remove yourself from the equation.