Employment might come with its own frustrations, but unemployment has a way of breaking an adult’s confidence to the point where even answering calls, socializing and living life feels heavy 💔💔
You don’t realize how much Nigeria and its government can hold you back until one of your close friends moves abroad. In just a year or two, they start achieving things you never thought possible that fast. That’s when it hits you that this country slowly kills dreams bruh💔
Girl to girl: A healthy relationship won’t leave you constantly anxious, confused, or emotionally starved. The right man will make you feel valued, understood, reassured, and deeply loved without making you fight for it every day....
I finally realized… when someone no longer wants you, they keep doing the exact things that hurt you until you’re the one who leaves. That way, they get to act innocent while you carry the blame for the ending. The coldest breakup is when they mentally leave you long before they physically do.
i think a lot of people who love deeply eventually become numb because they spent too much time trying to pour love into people who only appreciated receiving it
Some people will swear that you are the problem. Yet, after you leave, their lives remain exactly the same: the same habits, the same issues, and the same chaos. That is when it hits you; it was never you. They just need someone to blame so they don't have to face themselves.