If you a nigga that cheat on his girl you better get that shit over with by 25. You setting yourself to fail in a lot of areas in your life other than your love life and I wont elaborate any further than that.
Do not talk about discernment if you cannot recognise when someone needs compassion more than criticism and correction. There is a time to guide and a time to simply hold space for a person who is hurting. Wisdom knows the difference. And kindness knows it even faster.