You cannot expect people to show you the same love that you show them. And you should also not let the actions of other people change who you are. Take nothing personal.
Any boy who grows up with married, supportive parents, a father who hugs & kisses him, a mother who hugs & kisses him, etc., will become a young man who will do great things. The juvenile & prison systems are full of boys & men who did not have what you’re seeing in this video.