your 20s are also losing friends, facing failure, watching your parents get older, worrying about being alone forever, seeing your body change, quitting terrible jobs, rediscovering childhood hobbies, learning how to say no, moving back home, the identity crisis that comes out of nowhere, questioning true happiness, losing yourself and then finding your way back
i'm a type C girl...
- i can deep clean the whole house. or ignore a laundry pile for days.
- i can give a motivational pep talk, or need one myself.
- i can be 20 mins early or walk in 20 mins late.
- i can go to bed at 8pm, or scroll reels until the sun comes up.
To all my girls chasing a new chapter, be gentle with yourself. What's meant for you will always find you, so trust the process and give yourself grace 💕
date sweet men. men who are calm. men who can articulate themselves. men who are soft spoken. men who are patient with you. men who respect both you and themselves . men who are kind to you. men that are gentle. men who have self control.
So this Girl in the pharmacy was $60 short for her diabetic medication. She turned around & asked her bf who just got paid. Literally just finished cashing his check. does he have it and he said no. She gave him a look like “wtf”. 😒then said don’t worry about it! She made one phone call, then next thing ya know that cash app went “DING” came through. 🤣 Now her dude wanna know who sent it. Moral of the story is, if one won’t, there’s one that will. 😭🤣🤣🤣
BD’s don’t ever say, “dang bm, thanks for not being a bum, you a good mom, you never ask nobody in my family for nothing, my kids stay dressed, fed, doing good in school even tho I had nothin to do with it, that’s what’s up”. Cus if you ain’t sayin that, ion wanna talk.