girls will survive abuse, heartbreak, grief, and unspeakable tragedies and still move through the world with kindness and compassion, but one minor inconvenience in a man's childhood and he spends the rest of his life terrorizing and poisoning everyone around him
my shyness has this exception where if someone is as shy or uncomfortable as i am or even more, i suddenly develop another personality that's extremely extroverted just to save the other person.
Turning mean out of no where!! IMO, they’re trying to create relationship problems that didn’t previously exist so that they feel justified seeking love elsewhere. Also allows them to tell the other woman/man, “my relationship is on the rocks anyway”
One time my ex started calling me a c*nt out of no where. I begged and begged for him to tell me what I did wrong so I could fix it, but he couldn’t provide an answer. Wasn’t til after I discovered the cheating that I realized he was purposely creating fake issues
unpopular opinion but a lot of “mental health issues” disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. peace is expensive and pretending money doesn’t affect mental health is privilege.
@Solyricon He got real mean out of no where. We were never the type to fight but a flip switched and he was this new evil man. I think he was lowkey trying to create relationship problems so he could use our issues to justify cheating