Kait Tomlin

Helping singles live their BEST dating life👯‍♀️ Podcast Host Heart of Dating ❤️ Love yourself + never settle.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Stop preparing for your future spouse more than preparing for your future self.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Rejection is truly redirection and His protection… it may make NO sense, but God’s plans are always sovereign and good.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Newsflash: no one ever regretted taking a wise amount of time to get to know someone layer by layer while guarding their heart in the process.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

You should be with someone who is interested in you without you trying to convince them to be.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

You will be most attractive to the right person in dating when you are the most YOU.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Please don’t be with someone who you constantly have to guess where you stand with them. Clarity is kindness.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

The bravest thing you can do is walk away from someone who is unsure about you. This year; be brave more.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Here's a tip: the right person won't leave you GUESSING if they are interested in you. They will show you over and over again in both word and action.

Pro tip: If you have to guess whether or not they are into you, chances are they likely aren't.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

It’s time to stop falling in love with a potential version of them and look at who they are TODAY. You don’t want to be their therapist, coach, or mentor..and trust me, they don’t really want it either.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

The goal of a first date shouldn't be to decide if you want to marry them. It should be to decide if you want to go out with them ONE. MORE. TIME.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Ladies, do not settle for a man that is unsure about being with you. The right man will be ignited to pursue you in both word and action.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Newsflash: Just because they are not attracted to you, does not mean YOU are not attractive

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

What if dating is less about following hard and fast rules and more about learning how to HONOR this person in front of you while you HONOR GOD together?

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

the foundation of your singleness should be rooted in GODLY PURPOSE, not the hope for marriage

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Rejection is truly just a REDIRECTION and a means for God's PROTECTION.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Walking away from someone who doesn’t honor or cherish you is one of the bravest things you can ever do.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Maybe the question should NOT be “When will my person come?”. Maybe it should instead be “Will I grieve this season if they do?”

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Let this be your dating MISSION:
I am dating because I DO want to get married, BUT I am released of expectations. I will not let it CONSUME me. And, I will not FORCE it to happen.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

Finding someone who can run with you in the kingdom is a spectacular, sweet gift.

AND, it’s also the most stretching and refining thing you’ll probably ever endure.

[Kait Tomlin @KaitWarman]

If you are UNCLEAR about what you are looking for, you will likely be UNCLEAR about if you should be with them when it comes down to it.