A narcissist don’t build real love, they build backups. You can hold ’em down, stay ten toes, give ’em your all… and they’ll still move funny behind your back. They crave attention, control, and validation, but accountability...Never that.
Almost no one talks about how frustrating it is to have an emotional relapse after a long period of time when you thought everything was finally going to be okay
& I’m not dating for help, nor am I dating to be the help 😂 I simply want a loyal, genuine partnership with someone to do life with. We both have our own and come together to build something real. That’s it.
When he tells me that I never - understood him, but l was literally without flowers, without dates, without little letters, without thoughtful gestures, no surprise outings, no pictures, no showing me off. I was just settling for his strange way of loving.