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[Nina @Ninaaa518]

Consideration means soooo much to me.

[PeePee🎀 @peegzy1]

foreverrrrrr a grateful girl because no matter what i’m going through , i know that God's plans are bigger

[Jordo @veryADVANCED]

i am begging some of you to become ok with hearing not-so-great-things about yourself. especially if it is coming from a loved one that historically respects your agency. chances are you unknowingly crossed a boundary & someone is trying to tell you in a respectful way.

[Mia♡ @luxemiaa]

I hope every lover girl finds her super calm gentleman who is unashamedly & insanely obsessed with her.

[Adesola Light 🇨🇦 || #Geni Lawyer @the_adesolaa]

Body is what?
Body is the temple of the Holy Ghost.

[Jola @Jollz]

Need a quick $75,000

[refilwe🫦 @mofo_refilwe]

oh to be someone’s reason to buy flowers

[No filter Skin @NoFilterSkin]

Since I’ve learned about a surgical term called “avocado hand” I have never taken the avocado pit out using a knife ever again.

[* @_lowkeyalfred]

I really love that random wave of gratitude that hits you and reminds you of how blessed you are.

[M 🐆 @mattnkofo]

When you are loved and considered in your relationship, cherish that thing.

[Petite✨ @celeste_unusual]

Educated Hausa women accent

[Joy Joy @Joyoky1]

It is crazy how a single moment of misunderstanding can become so toxic that it makes you forget the thousands of lovely moments you have spent together with someone. Anger has a terrible way of rewriting history.

[Natasha Asanté @natashante]

stay beautiful and sweet but please have a backbone babe.

[Osaretin Victor Asemota @asemota]

When I turned 25, I was making so much money that I thought I would never be poor again. My cousin came to me with a story of how he needed new shoes and a suit for a job interview. I gave him 5k Naira which was a lot then.

He didn't need those things. He lied. He boasted to my friends that he had "obtained 5K" from me and that they should try their luck. Fortunately they were blunt about their intention.

I never gave him anything again after that, no matter his stories. He suffered some great miseries in life because of his attitude of always trying to "obtain" from others. One of the few people that Japa didn't change their fortunes.

Some people just ask out of greed and not because of need. You have to learn discernment and have strict limits.

[Peng @Acedouglas01]

Someone who’s cruel to others and kind to you will eventually turn on you.

You can count on that.

[femiiiiii. @femiiiszn]

i hope the next global trend will be empathy and critical thinking.

[iAmSolution_Now! @hyzinkfm]

I never imagined I would be making this kind of plea.

My wife, Dasola, went in for a Caesarean Section to deliver our baby, but what should have been the happiest moment of our lives suddenly became a fight for survival.

She developed severe sepsis after surgery, leading to

[Nature Unedited @NatureUnedited]

At an aquarium in Japan, after closing time, some clever little otter pups help their grandpa tidy up their toys. As a reward, he gives them ice cubes

[Osaretin Victor Asemota @asemota]

What do men want?

When I was in my 20s, I was a different type of young man. Others were drinking beer and chasing girls, but I was building a business and not drinking, but still chasing girls.

As I grew older and became more stable in my career, I wanted a family. However, I went through many failed relationships before finally realizing that it wasn't about them, but about me. I looked inward and changed myself to a more patient, more generous, and less impulsive person.

I also found religion again, and it made all the difference. I got the best life partner I could have ever imagined. A blessing. It was given to me by the grace of God. I didn't create it. I learned a great deal from that process about what is truly important in life and how to achieve it.

We believe too much that everything we do is why we get what we want and that we deserve it. The best things you have today are likely things you didn't deserve but got anyway. We should not become conceited or arrogant as it could have been much worse.

Grace isn't about NOT hustling and waiting for miracles, but knowing that even while hustling, you could be a tool for blessing others while you are being blessed. I discovered that doing good to others in relationships and avoiding a transactional approach compounds blessings.

I was having a conversation with my cousin in his mid-30s this morning about career and settling down to build a family and realized that it wasn't going to be about anything he did right but about what God determined was right.

A good friend who had ticked all the right boxes in her life, got a first class degree and a PhD before 24, called me three days to her wedding and wanted me to tell her something to make her know if she was right about going forward. I sent her Psalm 127 v 1.

“Unless the LORD builds the house, the builders labor in vain. Unless the LORD watches over the city, the guards stand watch in vain”

This post wasn't meant to be all religious and “preachy” but it is International Men’s Day and I believe that what makes you a man is Grace and not bravado or hype. Real men pray and do good things. They are also blessed abundantly when they are blessings to others. Help a fellow human today.