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Nomadi Tribal 🌙 Serpent Sadist 🌙 500k taken 💸

[Hyperion @Ortgeist]

Conservatory interior, 1985

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

@fockthistwt @godcleo I keep giving yall lzrs grace but I'm reminded why yall shouldn't be here
Go back to rlpsng instead of middling in women businesses

You have no say in this

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

If there is one thing I want dommes to know, is that you don't own the internet any "conformation" of your labor.

You could be traveling the world using your subs money, posting content and you would still be entitled to privacy, especially since many subs prefer that.

Random ppl online don't own the title of "domme", if you're in a D/s dynamic, you're a domme (or switch) only your subs and closer ppl matters

Have walls wired with thorns around your content, not everyone should know about you.

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

@lettersfromjuno 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

@Andrea_Rosu You're welcome!

And you're doing great! Keep celebrating yourself, truly being a woman is to accept our complexities

And we are capable of growing like mother nature!

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

@GoddessSydneyJ @Andrea_Rosu Sadly even with mentoring this issue still exists.

But I don't deny our interest and i definitely want women to enjoy kinks they likes as they wish (with rules ofc)

The rest I agree with, hopefully to more enjoyable time!

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

You have a whole account dedicated to following findommes and proving that findom is wrong

Even if all of us stopped now, men will seek vanilla women to send to, so technically it's not our issue.
you sound like either a exfinsub who have shame issues or in denial of something,

it is a gender point, because we are talking about femdom, i.e dominant women

Even without kink, men would still worship and pay women, hence my comment about western culture

Now if you excuse me, I have to go enjoy my day with my sub 5k send :)

Heal yourself, it will give you answers you seek, women reflects back at you, they don't hate you

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

You have a whole account dedicated to following findommes and proving that findom is wrong

Even if all of us stopped now, men will seek vanilla women to send to, so technically it's not our issue.
you sound like either a exfinsub who have shame issues or in denial of something,

it is a gender point, because we are talking about femdom, i.e dominant women

Even without kink, men would still worship and pay women, hence my comment about western culture

Now if you excuse me, I have to go enjoy my day with my sub 5k send :)

Heal yourself, it will give you answers you seek, women reflects back at you, they don't hate you

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

I have always pointed out that this assumption about risks exists way worse in maledoms/cashmasters and even maledoms play.

But because we are talking about women, rules are applied with double standards and subs agency is stripped

I agree that one must be careful, but it would be easier for ppl to look at dommes account as marketing spaces rather than genuine admission of evilness

A boxing club sharing bloody images for ads doesn't mean they allow boxers to off each others

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

@usedsoap2 You yourself is using a fake account, for all we know you couldn't be even a sub and lying about your sent.
See, simple as that.

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

@Flattened113 It's gender based, this like saying issues with doctors not taking patients seriously isn't gender/race based in many cases.

I don't understand you westrens, you have all the freedom yet you choose to operate on fear.

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

@brattyavaa Resources in women hand flourish, men hoard stuff until it's filth, that's why they know their wealth isn't worthy until it spends on women.

All the wealth in the world belongs to her, to whom she has life/death in her hands

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

@scycult It's generation issues also, similar to how mothers would rather slavee for their husbands

But when their daughters seek to have balanced relationship they tell them their "love" isn't real

Many women resent themselves, and they project that, hell not even men work this hard

[Ms Amani @MsAmani]

obsession with separating femdom/findom exposes something deeper. women are permitted power only if it remains symbolic and earned through struggle. male gaze is so deeply embedded that even female liberation is policed by other women and approved by men. freedom with t&c is just obedience with better PR.

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

@usedsoap2 How is that related to my reply? I'm confused

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

What is the problem with "quick money" no one fault sugar babies or cashmasters? Or because it's a woman

Besides many subs are the one seeking dommes and sometimes they seek vanilla women too (although consent is important)

All the complaints abt findom boils down to either double standards, concerns blown out of proportions, or simply ppl mad women are happy

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

What is the problem with "quick money" no one fault sugar babies or cashmasters? Or because it's a woman

Besides many subs are the one seeking dommes and sometimes they seek vanilla women too (although consent is important)

All the complaints abt findom boils down to either double standards, concerns blown out of proportions, or simply ppl mad women are happy

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

Even sex work includes those aspects.

If you look at any lifestyle femdoms spaces, many dominant women share this concern around rarely being respected.

I have seen this many times, especially around play parties, many older respected veterans I saw would avoid many subs, and usually have limited ones because they struggle when the "dom me" subs come in.

If dommes truly centered themselves, they rarely find genuine submissives

Especially if they're from cultures where the norm is women pleasure not the other way around

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

Even sex work includes those aspects.

If you look at any lifestyle femdoms spaces, many dominant women share this concern around rarely being respected.

I have seen this many times, especially around play parties, many older respected veterans I saw would avoid many subs, and usually have limited ones because they struggle when the "dom me" subs come in.

If dommes truly centered themselves, they rarely find genuine submissives

Especially if they're from cultures where the norm is women pleasure not the other way around

[ᴷᵃˡⁱ @Kaleikah]

I do IRL and online (both pro and lifestyle for 2 decades now), yes IRL has more focus since you can actually see the reaction and everything but it depends on the sub

Some sub prefer online and to dismiss their submission as not genuine is disingenuous.

There is no such thing as "real" whatever, if a domme is dominant and in a dynamic with a submissive who sees her as one then she is, even if she doesn't adhere to whatever category ppl has, dynamics are similar to relationships, even paid one once they become consistent

We are all humans, nothing is cut and dry.