I don’t disagree with the sentiment in all honesty, but on the flip side I just think the more create watered down alternatives of established social orders we devalue the core thing. Tbh society just needs a cultural renaissance where marriage is promoted and incentivised.
Many unmarried, cohabiting couples have limited legal protections if their relationship ends or a partner dies, even after long-term relationships or raising children together.
Labour is consulting on reforms to strengthen the legal protections available to these couples.
Rest in Power, Kanya King CBE ❤️ 🕊️
Kanya King, founder of the Music of Black Origin (MOBO) Awards has sadly passed away at the age of 57.
A visionary & trailblazer, she created space where few existed. Her influence will resonate for generations to come.
"I have a boyfriend" doesn't stop them.
"I’m married" doesn't stop them.
However, “I love luxury and expensive things"
that one clears the room every time.
You’d have to be an absolute arsehole to try and keep anything more than £100 to rectify that minor wear and tear. Carpet is the only tricky point. This place is spotless. Anyone saying otherwise are the people who give landlords a bad name
I’m not gonna make it home for dinner every night, please understand that 🙏🏾💰
Women aren’t ready for this though. They think they are, but most aren’t.
British kids taste Southern food for the first time. 🔥Biscuits and gravy, fried chicken, and sweet tea. They will be begging their parents to move to the U.S. 🤣😂🤣
Yesterday, it was an honour to tour Dangote Petroleum Refinery with the Directors of First Holdco and subsidiaries 🐘🏭
We were warmly hosted by Africa’s greatest industrialist, @AlikoDangote, whose ambition to the continent continue to inspire so many of us.
Even though I’ve visited the site several times, each visit reminds me of what is possible when big dreams are backed by real action.
Africa’s future will be built by leaders who believe deeply in our own people… F.Ote💲
Aliko Dangote just confirmed it himself.
The Dangote Refinery IPO is coming to the market by September 2026.
Demand is already in billions of dollars. The private placement alone has requests of nearly $2 billion before the public offer even opens.
The refinery will produce 10% of America’s entire refining capacity. The largest refinery ever built on earth. The highest turnover of any business in Africa.
In his exact words: “We want it to be like Amazon or Apple. The people who bought early became millionaires. That’s what we want to bring to Africa.”
Position before September, or watch from the sidelines.
The honest person goes through a transformation post breakup.
They hit the gym, church, the outdoors, they spend more time with family and friends, and they focus on career.
They improve their diets, seek our therapies, and get deeply motivated to be better. Alone.
The dishonest person immediately copes via attention from others, venting and smearing and painting themselves a victim of circumstance and neglect, again.
No time to themselves at all, in fact, they're setting up new relationships while still in one, knowing they cannot face being truly alone.
Alone with their thoughts, regrets, and their truth.
The honest person transmutes that pain from being alone into great success.
@nifemi_os Storing their wealth in foreign banks… investments on foreign stock… properties in foreign lands.. The definition of capital flight. Again there is no incentive to invest locally when corruption can see your land/businesses taken away, and you have access to everything abroad
The last part is what is missing from Nigeria’s ruling class, and all the handicapped economies. They are not prohibited (in fact they are courted) from storing their (countries) wealth in foreign banks, educate their children abroad, healthcare abroad. No incentive to build home
Africa’s richest man, Aliko Dangote (69) still wakes up at 5AM, hits the gym, then works like his staff.
“I treat my business as a hobby if it was a job, I wouldn’t work this hard.”
He sold his mansions in the US & UK just to stay focused on Nigeria. No distractions. Pure vision.
Now he has Vision 2030.
This is what real discipline looks like.
Who else is taking notes?