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[Emre Güzel @emreguzzel]

İnsanları bu kadar kolay hayatından
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Ben:

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

According to psychology, the urge to immediately fix a partner’s or friend’s distress instead of just sitting with them in it isn't empathy; it is your own low frustration tolerance. When someone you love is hurting, and you instantly jump into problem-solving mode, offering unsolicited advice or trying to find a silver lining, you are often trying to soothe your own secondary anxiety. You aren't rescuing them from their pain; you are rescuing yourself from the discomfort of witnessing a vulnerability you don't know how to hold.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

My greatest adult disappointment was discovering that bad people get away with everything.

[Sforza. @nightmours]

gosto pra caralho de gente que sabe desenvolver conversas profundas, mas que, ao mesmo tempo, também sabe ser superficial e ter uma conversa boba. pessoas realmente interessadas em conversar me cativam.

[eda @oluruyok]

ilk gençlik yıllarını depresyonla geçirdiği için kendini tanıyamamış ve her şeye geç kalmış kızlar

[‏ً @itsnwts]

Men. They used it to control women

[Y @yorukhanimin]

Üni son sınıfta antidepresan içip 10 tane ilkokul 2. sınıf öğrencisine psikoeğitim verirken şahsım idi. Bir tanesi dönüp. “biliyor musunuz artk en sevdiğim gün perşembe çünkü okula siz geliyorsunuz” dedi ve hayat yeniden yaşamaya değer oldu.

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

finally taking a step back when I realize it doesn't weigh on their heart like it does mine

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

My therapist told me

a marriage truth nobody mentions:

You'll fall in and out of love with the same person repeatedly. The falling out is normal. The falling back in is the choice. Most people leave during the out phase. Long marriages aren't one love story. They're multiple love stories with the same person.

[Pan @pandoraimperx]

hayatın şifrelerini çözmüş bilge bir adam görüyorum

[axelle @urlocalsinefil]

Niyeyse kendi bedenini satmayı düşünmüyo oysaki anneler kızlarını satmak yerine ilk bunu düşünür

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

You don't have to show everybody your full personality like it's very okay to be absolutely nobody to some people.

[Kiwi @ChineseCheese]

The love of my life was a sweet and loving man, but practically incurious about me. The books, films, video games, stories, that made me who I am will probably remain untouched on his shelves forever. He once said we are the same person, but how could he know?

[Türk 🇹🇷 @bayilbideferiha]

Suratındaki mutluluğa şapşallığa bakın hıçkıra hıçkıra ağlıcam şimdi

[⋆⁺₊⋆ jessica ☾ ⋆⁺₊⋆ 🍉 @ItsMrsRabbitToU]

Well now. Isn’t this interesting. So much for the patriarchy.

[The Notorious J.O.V. @whotfisjovana]

no literally

[Mia♡ @luxemiaa]

I canceled a date because I wasn’t feeling great.

I told him the truth. My period had started, I was exhausted, and I was in one of those moods where even putting on jeans felt unreasonable.

I assumed we’d just reschedule.

Instead, he asked if he could stop by for a minute. I said yes.

A little while later he showed up at my door with ice cream and chocolate.

He handed me the bag, gave me a hug, said he hoped I felt better soon, and then left.

That was it.

No expectation that I entertain him. No attempt to turn it into a shortened date. No “well, I’m already here, so can I come in?” He just wanted to........

[shay᭡.ִֶָ𓂃 @yappingbambix]

a man would ask zero questions about you and then say he’s falling in love with you