Begin so obsessed with imaginary aesthetics that you go as far as completely cutting out colour from your children’s life. Everything has to be “uniform” to make your “dream family” look appealing. What a sad life. trad wives tales never ends well for the kids. It’s actually better not knowing anything about people.
Please raise your daughters to have hobbies, interests, and academics...so when they become adults and middle-aged women they have something to talk about besides a man.
Date someone who is curious about you. Not someone who simply finds you attractive or entertaining, but someone who wants to know the person behind the surface. Someone who reads every message twice, remembers the stories you almost forgot to tell, and notices the little things no one else does. Someone who wants to know where your scars came from, what shaped you, what makes you laugh, and what keeps you awake at night. Attraction may draw someone in, but genuine interest is what makes them stay. Find someone who wants to learn every layer of who you are.
There is absolutely nothing more pleasing than watching yourself do the things you said you’d do. I really value honoring the promises I’ve made to myself.
[ARRESTED] Following the surfacing of a video clip on various social media platforms showing a physical altercation where a male individual is seen assaulting a 21-year-old female, police can confirm that a 22-year-old high school learner has been arrested and charged.
He is expected to make his first court appearance in the Bloemfontein Magistrate's Court on 12 June 2026.
@ehisssss Exactly,Your decision to cut someone off should be based on their character, behavior, and impact on your well-being—not their future status, money, fame, or achievements.
Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
I actually don't want to climb any corporate ladders. I don't care about job titles. I don't need accolades.
I just want to have income to fund my lifestyle, not be depressed, help other people, and be around good humans.
@Kgadi_yaMoloto Stop trying to be someone else’s favorite color.
Being ‘enough’ isn’t about changing who you are , it’s about not wasting time on people who can’t see your value.
Compatibility isn’t optional, it’s survival.
Saw a post that said, “You can be the prettiest shade of Green, but you’ll never be enough for someone whose favorite color is Blue.”
Compatability is so important and mostly overlooked.