as a grown up, i've realized you don't want to be crazy in love. you want someone who gives you peace of mind, reassurance, and consistency not constant anxiety and little heart attacks
i am not interested in being with anyone who thinks disappearing for hours let alone days without communication is acceptable behavior in a relationship
I will never ever be a cool girlfriend! Uma kukhona engingakuzwa kahle, uzongchazela kuze kuse. We’re not moving on from the topic until it makes sense to me😭😭😭