if your reaction to the tiktok ban is "well now influencers have to get real jobs" and not "wow this is a terrifying display of censorship," i am begging you to reach into the deepest recesses of your brain and dust off those critical thinking skills
when i start crying because of stress‚ it turns into crying over family‚ crying over my past mistakes‚ crying over losing my person‚ crying over the fact that they’ll leave me eventually‚ crying about my body‚ and crying over about my entire life.
Ain’t nothing “weird” about me. If you rub me the wrong way, im either doing two things.. speaking on it &/or removing myself & revoking your access to me. I don’t move weird. It’s very black & white w/ me. Ain’t NO grey areas.
The highest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you.
It breaks my heart when y’all act like y’all don’t care about dates, birthdays, and holidays because the person you’re with does not care to make it special for you.
There is nothing glamorous about doing life alone, hyper independence is a trauma response, you are not a burden, you derseve to be loved by people and be taken care of, held and loved in abundance. You deserve to be told "I love you , we care". Community is what we all need.
The biggest tip that helped me heal from past relationships was remembering that whoever hurt me probably isn’t thinking about what they’ve done to me & are out there living their own life. You have to let go at some point & move on to living yours too.