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@Lazarrow09 @Moognific @zxmbietta And as I said, no such thing as “normal” when it comes to beauty.

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@tjchi7 @Moognific I meannnn if it was a joke, then I can admit that it flew over my head, and perhaps I went on the warpath too fast. Like I think what you said actually opened my eyes that this might be a joke

But I still stand by everything I said if he was being serious that she is a brick

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@tjchi7 @Moognific If the original post was sarcastic, yeah I can see what you mean. You are probably right, although if it was sarcastic, I wish he would clarify. I still would say maybe “normal” is not the right word. And if og post was serious that she’s a brick, then I do stand by what I said

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@tjchi7 @Moognific See that wording, I have no problem with. Maybe I have misconstrued something and perhaps the original “brick” post was supposed to be sarcastic, I was using a context clues to base my idea on that he may have a warped sense of beauty standards.

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@tjchi7 @Moognific Look at his og tweet, he literally says that in the replies.

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@tjchi7 @Moognific Look pretend to be dense all you want, I just don’t think we should be rage farming by insulting a woman’s appearance. I fully realise you’re rage baiting me now, I was just hoping I could inspire some level of conscience from people who should know better

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@tjchi7 @Moognific I have said nothing about her body size. I’m not the one calling her a brick. I’m not the one saying suggesting that tiaras work here was more impressive because she was working on a “normal” girl instead of a “thin drag race girl”

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@tjchi7 @Moognific Looks. Looks. None of our opinions matter with regard to her looks. And no that doesn’t mean that it’s ok then to post nasty things about women’s looks online, that means that if you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything.

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@tjchi7 @Moognific -pick out his comment and separate it from all the hate women get, it just gets swept up in the sea of comments and just tells other men that it’s ok to comment on a woman’s looks. And nice try, but not transphobic here in the slightest. Misogyny affects all women

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@tjchi7 @Moognific Look bottom line is he ridiculed a woman for her looks, vanilla is a gorgeous woman in and out of makeup full stop. She is not a brick, and regardless none of our opinions on her looks matters, but it all adds up to the hate and violence that women face daily. No one is gonna-

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@tjchi7 @Moognific Only cause it’s a common attack that women get already. “brick” is one way that larger women can be attacked for their weight by. I hope you’re not gonna try and argue that “brick” was meant to be a compliment. Let’s not deflect from the fact that he made fun of a woman’s looks

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@tjchi7 @Moognific Im not calling her fat; im not doing this “I know you are but what am I” schtick. Im saying that brick is a term that is used to to refer to someone as being more masc in a derogatory way, and that larger women often get told that they look more masculine just by nature of size

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@Moognific -“normal”, like as if tiara had to put more work in to make vanilla beautiful. This is your warped sense of beauty standards on women, not just something I’m making up.

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@Moognific That’s not an opinion, that’s just what you said. You said she was a brick, a term that’s used to describe someone who looks more masculine. And larger women are often told they look like men in a derogatory way. You suggested the makeup was more transformative cause she looks-

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@Moognific -fat phobia where you think the fat phobia you get means you get to do it to other people, or you still somehow maintain this notion that you’re not a misogynist and that this is just all a joke and you don’t think this adds to the sea of woman hate. Which it absolutely does

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@Moognific Your “joke” at the end of the day is just “haha woman fat”, the whole punchline only makes sense if you just genuinely think it’s ok to make fun of a woman’s size or looks. This is not some flex, this is either you don’t care about making fun of women, you have internalised-

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@MarkvartAulitz @zerorangesoda -shitty opinion. It all adds up, and women just don’t have the time of day to dissect the intentions of every man who has something to say about a woman’s body. And ppl are calling him fat in the replies, he’s relishing it. He thinks it justifies his misogyny, but it doesn’t.

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@MarkvartAulitz @zerorangesoda I promise you it says more and about euro beauty standards than it does about actual fat people. It’s an issue because this is just another voice to add to the sea of scrutiny that women face on a CONSTANT basis. All of this stuff is connected, it’s not JUST one guy with a-