The pressure that comes with the made up timelines and deadlines. People want you to govern your life according to what everyone else has done or is doing. You won’t find peace until you stop caring about the backlash that comes with doing things in your own time, on your terms.
One of the healthiest habits to learn: Take nothing personal. Most of the time it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. Just observe instead of getting caught up and overreacting emotionally. You have nothing to prove to anyone but yourself.
Hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. You gotta do this shit sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. Life doesn’t care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going