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If Western women can kill their kids because of postpartum, what should women in Africa, Iraq, Afghanistan do?
Think about it.
A woman in Congo wakes up at 4am, fetches water on her head, farms under 40 degree sun, cooks with firewood, has 5 kids, no hospital, no husband support, no therapy, no daycare, no money. She does NOT kill her children.
A woman in Afghanistan under Taliban, no rights, no money, no food, bombs dropping - she still holds her kids and protects them with her life.
A woman in Gaza, in Iraq, living in a tent, with war outside - she starves herself so her child can eat.
Then you have a Western woman. Best healthcare in the world. Best hospital. Husband, mother, therapist, postpartum nurse, baby formula, washing machine, dryer, dishwasher, money, government support, paid leave, daycare, antidepressants, everything.
And she kills her baby and says "postpartum made me do it."
It's not postpartum. It's how you were raised.
When you raise girls with zero responsibility, zero struggle, zero pain tolerance. You tell her she is a princess from age 3.
You never let her hear "no." You give her participation trophies. You tell her "your feelings matter more than duty." You tell her "if you feel stressed, quit." You coddle her like a child for 25 years.
What do you expect? You raised a mentally weak woman.
Depression exists everywhere. Stress exists everywhere. African women have 10x more reason to be depressed. But they were taught: You don't get to quit. You have kids depending on you. Your feelings don't come before your children's lives.
Western culture teaches: Your feelings come FIRST. Self-care first. Me first.
It has been established since at least 2013 that His Eminence, John Cardinal Onaiyekan, is one of “Nigeria’s strongest voices against bad governance.”
Thirteen years later, he has remained true to his principles. Just yesterday, he did exactly what many of you praised him for over the years. But because the subject of his comments is your political messiah, you now believe he has crossed the line.
@adesina_adele, this is the true meaning of hypocrisy, especially at a time when the term is being used so loosely.
At some point, we all have to accept that human beings are capable of being selfish, disloyal, and wicked—and adjust accordingly.
Never overdo what you do for someone else. Even food loses its value when it's overcooked.
Loyalty is a choice, not something your sacrifices can buy. The sooner men come to terms with that, the better.
Stop doing too much. Stop paying school fees for women. Stop getting them jobs. Love yourself enough to trust that they can find their own path, just as you found yours.
Love yourself enough to only stay in relationships where real, visible sacrifices are being made by both people—not where one person carries everything while the other contributes the bare minimum.
Sex is not a sacrifice; it's mutual pleasure.
"I love you" is not a sacrifice; it's a feeling. It should exist in any healthy relationship.
Pet names like "baby," "dear," or "my love" are not sacrifices either. They're normal.
Romantic texts, long calls, good morning messages, and emotional conversations are all normal parts of a relationship.
Sending nudes and having sexual conversations aren't sacrifices either. They're mutual experiences from which both people derive pleasure.
Real sacrifices are acts of love that genuinely cost the person making them something. They require giving up time, money, comfort, opportunities, or taking on hardship for the benefit of the other person. They are visible.
If you're the only one consistently making those kinds of sacrifices, then you're not in a balanced relationship—you're in a parasitic one, and you need to leave.
If you're not with a woman every moment, you don't truly know what she's doing when you're away, and you certainly can't control how she feels. That's just reality.
The woman whose school fees you're paying, whose provisions you're buying, and for whom you're constantly sacrificing could one day quietly sideline you. You stop being a person and become a paycheck.
"He'll send money on the 29th."
Your sacrifices become part of her monthly budget because she's not the one making them. Only you know what it costs to part with your money, your time, and your energy.
And if she eventually walks away, only you will truly feel the weight of everything you gave.
Today, I visited Abor village in Enugu State to see the village children learning Maths. I turned into a teacher today as well.
Some of the children don’t have teachers in their schools. Some said their teachers are always in a hurry to cover their syllabuses, while others have very uninteresting teachers.
I personally experienced the joy and eagerness in the children. This gives me so much joy.
The lessons will now be held Monday to Saturday, and we will run 2 batches every day because of the crowd.
We will run an internal assessment every 2 weeks.
This now looks like a model that will eradicate illiteracy in villages and low-income areas.
Roman Generals returning from conquest followed a strict protocol. A servant walked directly behind them, whispering "memento mori" the entire time. Remember your mortality. It was an institutional mechanism to prevent the ruler from becoming entirely detached from reality.
Don't fall for the narrative of the "innocent king" & his evil advissors. BAT engineered & built his court brick by brick. He selected men who would shield him from the consequences of his own policies. He demands the rosy picture b/c the actual suffering outside is irrelevant to him—Let them eat corn.
He went into that meeting expecting a standard RCCG anointing service. He assumed they would pray for his enemies to fall & do the usual praise singing. He completely forgot the Catholic playbook. Despite their own institutional flaws, they'll always treat a failing head of state like a toddler.
The Catholic Bishops Conference demanded investigations into the annulled 1993 elections right while Abacha was arresting people like Abiola for treason & silencing critics.
Onaiyekan warned Obasanjo about his third-term ambition while he sat there listening. Men like Bishop Kukah built whole careers on public dissidence, leader after leader.
BAT has chosen not to be reminded of his own failings. He has deliberately walked into Plato's cave, stockpiling all his stolen wealth with him like a geriatric goblin. That is a decision he & his cronies can stand by. It is left to the people who suffer from that indifference to take action.
"I went to deliver a necklace to someone when police officers stopped and searched me in Festac, Lagos. They found nothing on me but saw the scale I use to measure gold and accused me of using it to weigh weed. They ordered me to follow them to the station, but I refused because I had done nothing wrong. They were not properly dressed as police officers, and the bus they arrived in had no registration. They then dragged me, tried to force me into the bus, and one of them hit me on the head with a gun before they started be@ting me."
— Man cries out as he accuses Nigerian police officers of ass@ulting him.