Isayama is so goated for showcasing how people hold female characters to standards that don’t apply to male characters. gabi is actively hated for the same traits eren has always been admired for. “a man is allowed to laugh while a woman has to chuckle” type of thing
You simply have to live this way if you don't want the dumbest people alive to shit up the things you like. "Fandoms" are just when The General Audience gloms onto something that either isn't for them or will be ruined to appease them