Dear brothers, you can marry whenever you feel ready, but before you bring children into this world, please consider doing these things first.
1. Before your first child, buy land. A 50 by 100 ft plot is enough. It does not have to be in the city where land costs an arm and a leg. Buy where you can afford. The city will find you. Once you have secured the land and confirmed the title, okay bro, now you can welcome your first child. ๐
2. Before your second child, start building. Get a proper house plan and begin construction. Try to raise the house from the foundation up to wall-plate level. Once you have reached there, congratulations, second born can come. ๐
3. Before your third child, cover the house. Make sure it is roofed, plastered and closed with proper doors and windows. At that point, you already have something that looks and feels like a home. Third born, welcome.
4. Before the fourth child, your house should be complete. Then sit down with yourself and ask, โDo I really want more children? Can I comfortably provide for them?โ From there, bro, that decision is yours. ๐
The house in this picture is a simple three-bedroom home. One main bedroom for the parents, one room for the boys and another for the girls. You don't necessarily need to build rooms that remain empty waiting for visitors who come twice a year. When guests come, children can temporarily share and the visitors use one of their rooms.
It has a kitchen, dining area, two toilets and two bathrooms. Nothing extravagant, just a practical family home.
And bro, please try to finish that house before your children enter secondary school. Once school fees become serious, transport increases, teenagers start eating like government projects ๐ and other responsibilities multiply, finding construction money becomes much harder.
You can afford to start. You may not afford to finish it today, but that is not the same thing.
Buy the land. Start the foundation. Raise the walls. Roof it. Finish slowly.
Just start.
Bye bro, I hope this helps. ๐
Karl Wega
#KarlWega #HomeOwnership #BuildingInUganda #FamilyPlanning #StartSmall
Hello sisters, do you shower before or after dinner? ๐ If you shower before dinner, get yourself a dera like the one in photo 2, instead of putting back on the clothes youโve worn all day.
After putting the children to bed, remove that dera too, sister, donโt take it under the covers! ๐ Grab your sexy nightwear like the one in photo 1 and slip into that. Give the jerseys and everyday dresses a night off.
Whether youโre 25 or 52, being married doesnโt mean retiring the playful side of yourself. Wear something that makes you feel beautiful and comfortable, or sleep naked if thatโs your thing. ๐ Are we together, sisters?
Karl Wega
Who else watched money Heist and wld like to do some practices? What character are you taking? I'm Tokyo, I need Nairobi, the mighty professor and 5 more, we go for a meeting about how to deal with this economy ๐
@meddywillmadeit@drstellanyanzi@dunkaruma When your mom was delivering you, she was most likely helped by a male nurse that was way younger than her! What's the worst that happened?
O my Sterra... So sorry about what you went through! I'm glad you got a lot of help! It's sounding like a movie! Especially when a Dr. Was recently suspended for a very pretty reason! See how other doctors out there are freely using their knowledge on strangers on streets! ... ๐
I can't wait to see more of your swimsuit photos. Society will sort itself!
It can go either way. Some women use a manโs support as a ladder, then push him away once they reach where they wanted to be. Some men want a woman to remain at a level where they can command her and she obeys without questioning. When she gains knowledge, confidence and a few dollars of her own, starts standing her ground and making her own decisions, they see her independence as a threat.
Sometimes, someone abandons a supportive partner. Other times, someone stops accepting control.Y
This can happen to couples anywhere, not necessarily abroad
Hello married sisters, a cup of hot water with cloves every night before you sleep will give you that sound. Add 3-5 cloves in a cup of hot water, let it sit for about 10 minutes and drink, at least 30 minutes before bed.
#marriege#sex#libido
Some men only start asking โWhatโs wrong?โ when sheโs already packing, yet when she tried to talk earlier, she was โcomplaining too much.โ Listen while sheโs still trying to reach you, bro, and act on what sheโs saying. You shouldnโt need the fear of losing her to start paying attention.
@Adasu_d_gr8 Not really! Unless you're looking for a widow, widower, divorcee, churches are most times filled by family. Husbands, wives and their younger children. ... I go to church, that's my honest observation
@Adasu_d_gr8 Not really! Unless you're looking for a widow, widower, divorcee, churches are most times filled by family. Husbands, wives and their younger children. ... I go to church, that's my honest observation
@godlywomanhood So a woman can raise a future president but shouldnโt lead a meeting? ๐ Leadership requires competence, wisdom and accountability. Being a wife doesnโt erase any of those qualities, and marriage should leave room for both adults to think, contribute and be heard.