If they would disown you for being gay then family isn't important to them, your deference to them is, which means all you're doing is valorising your own servitude.
@locstarwaitin I think there are a lot of bisexuals that are able to acknowledge their attraction to women, but are not ready to acknowledge that they are uncomfortable with the marginalization and othering that comes with being visibly queer, so they choose not to make their queerness visible
The idea that sex glues your soul to someone is gendered nonsense.
It’s just one of the many ways society sells guilt to women. So no, it doesn’t transfer energies, doesn’t open spiritual portals & it definitely doesn’t tie your soul. That lie only exists to keep women policing -