Mom of 4children nanny to 3 legal Guardian to 4 #kinshipcarersuk . forgotten aunty of 3 stolen to adoption .legal Guardianship over adoption/long term trauma
Adopters: I can’t think of a more selfish person than someone who agrees to a program that will erase another human’s ancestry, separate them from their entire blood line, change their name, & create a fake birth cert.
All this … to get what THEY want - a baby!
If you’re celebrating the arrival of an #adopted baby, or know someone who is, temper your joy and know others are grieving the loss of that baby, and, most importantly, that baby is in trauma, despairing the loss of their mother. Never forget, #adoptionistrauma. Every time.