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@instablog9ja The difference is that the abroad Lady will not come with a long list of family problems and her bills.
She will come prepared to work with the guy as a team
But my gender and her family will come with a long list of problems without contributing shishi in Nigeria.
The women need to accept paying bills
The problem is majorly with our women who are not ready to pay bills
As long as we continue calling men to pay bills, we won't get things right
Even women who pay their bills are being mocked by other women
Tell me why men should be interested in getting knowledge about leadership when you will never be honored without money irrespective of the leadership role you play
Let's start working on our women to accept that paying bills is not gender based
They are being called names and their husbands being insulted for not being man enough
A man is being measured by what he can provide, the moment something happens to his income, insult go show especially from the woman he has worked and served
So I say 👇 to you
Check on your husband. You may be the only person who cares about his welfare apart from his mother. Men hardly get care from anybody 😭. They care for all, but many never get from anybody. Be that person who cares for your husband. He is also a human being
As a woman, remember that you are an adult first before you got married so is expected that you take care of your personal needs so what is coming from your husband will be a bonus not an entitlement.
So before you accuse him of not giving you money for your personal needs, find out how he is doing financially. Many men won't discuss their financial capacity because their wives won't understand. Are you that' type of wife?
Many women cry that their husbands are not taking care of their personal needs, my sister. Do you have an idea of what he is going thru? Do you know his financial capacity? Do you know if he is struggling? Or are you assuming?
It is easier for a woman to get help than a man, so many women who are going thru difficulties get help easily, but the man? No way. He must sort it or drown himself in debt
I just saw a video of a woman standing half-naked in front of her son 💔
This generation is losing it fast!
We criticize our parents for being too strict, yet we’re raising children with zero values.
Fathers, rise and protect your homes.
Mothers, guard your children’s minds.
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