If you want to be genuinely happy in marriage.
You must find a wife without money, & you must find a husband without money.
And you must do it with all sincerity of purpose.
But the man must prove that he can make money to take good care of you as his wife, & your kids.
End.
To young men in your early 20s.
The time to start preparing for marriage is now.
If you waste your scarce resources on betting, stupid girls & drugs.
And you mess up with your education.
Women will abandon you in the future.
Because you'll be too broke to get married.
End.
On the man who could not afford to send his 13 year old daughter to school.
Quite a number of persons have reached out to me.
I have done some DD & gotten some of them to speak with her school principal.
One of the benefactors (asides the one that I shared his DM earlier) has pledged to pay all her school fees until she's done with secondary school.
What have I decided?
I have asked all the benefactors to chat with @talk2veee.
All the donations will be sent to one account, & all other subsequent donations.
Then Vee will oversee the periodic payment of the school fees and other related fees of the girl.
All necessary payments must be made directly to the school, & the payment evidence will be sent to her father, so he can go claim the receipts.
I wish her father well, & recognize that he's a man.
However, this is public money. And we should be accountable for it, & the money is solely for his daughter's secondary education.
I hope my decision is fair enough.
Thank you 🙏.
I've told women repeatedly.
You cannot earn your place in a man's life by deliberately getting pregnant for him.
Even when he has told you that he's not ready to become a father.
And a man asking you to get pregnant for him before paying your bride price is also wrong.
End.
Let me say a few things.
A man that approaches a lady for the first time, saying that he wants to date you for marriage, may be a potential red flag.
Especially if the lady is in her late 20s and 30s.
When a lady is at this stage in her life, she becomes an easy prey for
To be a provider is tough but rewarding.
You'll go out, do your thing, and be at peace wherever you are.
Your children will be healthy & happy.
Your wife will look very beautiful, well fed, & she'll give you good fucks and food.
May God protect every man's shield.
Amen 🙏.
I'm so happy, I won't lie.
I feel like I'm fulfilling a part of my destiny.
I love what God is using my platform to do to people's lives.
I love it more because I'm doing it as anon.
So no one sees me as his or her god.
And I walk & interact freely in real life.
End.
My husband (Mr Believe Ubara), has been missing, not seen nor heard from, since on 19th January, 2024.
He was kidnapped by harmed men on an unfortunate Friday evening at the entrance to our home and the incident was witnessed by our security man, who alerted me….
A thread 🧵
The manual for relationships and marriage are universal. Nobody should deceive you about west or east, north or south. Humans are fundamentally emotionally and psychologically similar.
In romantic affairs,
Always take the harder right than the easier wrong.
Fight the spirit of sacrcity mindset, how to move on & how to start afresh.
Don't allow your emotions or feelings to betray you.
If you genuinely don't feel that it's right, then it's wrong.
End.
Study what I post.
Read the threads.
Read the DMs.
Learn from them.
I am not a saint, and I am not on X because I am jobless.
You'll not find a page like this anywhere else on social media.
And I'll not be here forever.
End.
You men need to learn how to pay attention to what women aren't saying than what they're saying.
They always tell on themselves.
Make your decisions mostly based on what she didn't say.
Whichever one you're not comfortable with, correct it or take a decisive action.
End.
Always remember,
When a woman abandons her matrimonial home, she is checking out of the marriage.
Going to beg her to return for whatever reasons, is you giving her the license to destroy you.
What is keeping her outside, is bigger than what will keep her inside.
End.
The only things that qualify a man to marry a wife are:
1) He must have a roof over his head
2) He must be making legitimate income & be kind
3) He must not be lazy
4) He must be good in bed & be able to father children
5) He must not be a mummy's boy
That's all he needs.
End.