Jennifer Lopez, LL Cool J- all I have
Paula DeAnda, The DEY- walk away (remember me)
Keyshia Cole- falling out
Usher - burn
Ashanti - foolish
Omarion - ice box
Rihanna- unfaithful
Heather Headley-I wish I wasn't
Usher-confessions part II
Chris Brown- say goodbye
A guy followed a woman i know home at night. She didn’t run. She didn’t yell. She laughed at his jokes. Complimented his shoes and even pretended she was flattered by the attention. She gave him her number just to make it home alive.
Blocked it the second her door locked behind her.
Men call this “leading someone on.”
Women call it survival. Men will never fully grasp the calculations women make in real time just to actually stay alive.
I have seen pregnant women feel ashamed in maternity wards because of poor hygiene.
And I have seen nurses wash them gently, trim their nails, brush their hair.
I have heard, in simple yet profound words, their gratitude:
“My baby will be born clean, thanks to you.”
I have seen a nurse pretend to be the mother of a woman with Alzheimer’s.
On her worst days, that patient would ask forgiveness from a mother she no longer recognized — a mother who was no longer alive.
The nurse told her she forgave her. That she loved her.
And in that suspended moment, I saw an embrace that healed, a deep relief before the final goodbye.
I have seen healthcare workers covered in vomit while holding a child’s head during a seizure, simply so the child would not feel alone.
I have seen nurses lift patients twice their size, with strong hands and the gentlest gestures — to wash them, refresh them, and give back a fragment of dignity.
I have seen a nurse cradle a baby born without life.
She washed her with warm water, caressed her, brushed her hair, dressed her —
so that the mother, who had painfully and rightfully asked to see her, could say goodbye in peace, in beauty, as if she were only sleeping.
I have seen nurses search for a pastor, a priest, a healer — anything that might bring comfort to a patient according to their faith.
I have seen nurses, in emergency rooms where fear is constant, run toward danger — rushing to a collapsed, infected patient to keep them from hitting their head — even at risk to their own lives.
And I have seen nurses work double shifts, without rest.
Leave behind children, partners, families — because care cannot wait.
Because ethics, duty, and love… come first.
If there is a profession more human, more noble, more sacred than nursing,
forgive my ignorance.
I do not know it.
Credit: Kell Kathy
If your partner is constantly going through your phone, hunting for proof of cheating, always suspicious, and regularly accusing you of being unfaithful, understand this. In most cases, they are not looking for your sins. They are looking for comfort.
More often than not, the person obsessed with catching you is the one already cheating. They search your phone hoping to find something that justifies their guilt, or ammunition to gaslight you so you stop questioning what they are doing behind your back.
Constant suspicion is rarely about love. It is usually about projection.
Sia features/collaborations
Damian Marley_ three seconds (before goodbye)
Stargate and P!nk_waterfall
David Guetta_she wolf(falling to pieces)
Kendrick Lamar_ the greatest
Zayn- dusk till dawn
I’ll never be scared to show love to my partner, and if they betray me or take my love for granted, I'll take my L, leave, and give it to someone more deserving.
No one can retire this lover.