my darkest day was in 4th grade when my parents discovered that i was giving divorced couples marriage advice on yahoo answers
they laughed as they read my comments back to me. i was shaking like a leaf.
To be desired by your lover and they show it in their words, in their actions, in their eyes when they look at you! To know that they constantly want you and will do anything to keep you, make your life easier and make sure you feel loved and seen by them every single day!
After you've healed and spent a good amount of time in solitude, your most potent characteristic is your discernment. I promise you can smell the creep on people.
if you lie to me once, i will start doubting everything you say afterwards. my trust is a delicate thing and once it's broken, it's hard for me to believe whatever you tell me. it changes the way i see you and makes it so difficult for me to restore my trust
Eventually I think the best coping mechanism is a hobby. Your interests will always nurse you back to joy. Reading, writing, playing a sport - find something that brings joy, then spend enough time nurturing it. Rely on it to always help you find your way back.
Quit acting all surprised when people compliment you, look up to you, love your work, or see you in a good way. YES, you are desirable. YES, you are good. YES, your work speaks for itself. YES, people see your potential & your power. Now it's time for you to believe it!!! ✨