@Auriel_zy In my own opinion honestly, I think he was just communicating. “I miss feeling wanted” isn’t the same as “you owe me sex.” Sometimes people just want reassurance that the rejection was about the moment, not about them. 😌
I watch her complain bout her bad phone & other things, acting like it's none of my business. I know it's not really my duty to fix everything for her, but deep down I know the old me would've handled it. Now I'm just a cold mf, trying not to make the same mistakes again.
Friend to friend:
Dream big, God will fund it.
Take care of yourself.
Eat well & move your body.
Start praying daily and reading your Bible.
Get your skills up, pursue that career.
Find your spark and do not lose your joy.
Take yourself on a solo date, celebrate your little wins.
That kind of wisdom hits different because he paid for every lesson himself.
Sit with people who have failed. They don't sell an illusion. They tell the truth.
A man who's been betrayed talks different about loyalty. A man who's lost talks different about winning. He doesn't need to sound smart or act like he knows everything. He's already learned the hard way.
Sit with people who have failed. They don't talk ego.
They talk reality. They've lost money, fucked up good opportunities, trusted the wrong people, made bad moves, and taken some hard Ls. A broke man talks different about money.