Women will never understand the simple joy men get from just existing.
A man can arrive in a new city, walk around for hours, explore random streets, observe people, and be completely fucking content.
Then a woman joins.
Now there needs to be an agenda.
Cafe. Restaurant. Shopping. Tourist spot. Photos.
Next location.
Something always has to be happening.
Meanwhile, a man can grab a good drink, sit in the town square for three hours, watch the world move around him, and think:
"Yeah. This is f*cking nice."
No itinerary. No entertainment. No destination.
Just existing without needing existence to entertain you.
Being a man is peaceful.
Do Not Arrive at Sixty With No Room Left
Men should listen to this clip with care. A retiree who built no social or political ground of his own now turns to his wife to reopen a life he let go cold.
That leaves a harder question. If the wife were gone, or if the marriage had already broken, what would be left for that man except a house with no door back into other people, and the slow slide into depression and whatever else isolation does to the mind?
That is what happens when the years are spent being “busy” the way the rat-race trained you to be: networks dropped, politics treated as dirty, friendships left unwatered, the whole self handed to an employer who will not sit with you when the salary stops.
Boomers paid that price in public. Work-life balance was shamed in their time, so a lot of men treated the office as the only honourable room and then discovered, too late, that the society they had abandoned had no spare chair.
We are supposed to learn from that, not repeat it with better phones.
The other trap sits inside men’s groups, especially those captured by rural-bred retarded bastards. The moment a circle gains momentum, someone puts a price on the door.
That is how the church was emptied of its original use. Cash came first. The meeting, the counsel and the spiritual work came last, if they came at all.
Members’ clubs went down the same way. Each new committee invents a project so it can loot the till, when the facility was meant to be a place families could be seen together. For instance in the AI age, you still have archaic rules that a phone must not ring and must not be answered in the club-houses, as if silence were culture and not a leftover from people who confuse control with dignity.
Sports clubs are meant to be non-profit rooms for people who already belong. Today they put a barrier at the gate that does two jobs at once: it keeps strangers out, and it humiliates members who have paid for decades the moment a subscription delays by a month.
That is Ruralism in a nut-shell. It turns a social asset into a little marketplace of shame so that a degenerate bastard excited over a new job or a new title can prove, to himself first, that he has overtaken the people who built the place. The title is usually the ceiling of what he will ever be. The club is only the stage he uses to announce it.
Those rooms were taken over by soulless, jigger-infested villagers who lucked into power, ate the places, and pushed the people who built them into quiet and then out.
Reclaiming politics from British colonial rot is only half the job. Kenyans from every walk have to take back the amenities that made ordinary life human and made sixties something you could walk toward.
Eject ruralism and the men who keep it. If you want a bench that still exists when you are old, you have to sit on it now, and you have to stop letting the looters rent it out as a scheme.
My entire feed is post like this.
Reading social media you'd assume the world has gone to hell.
It hasn't. Things are better than ever. You have more access, opportunity, quality of living, etc than ever in history.
Stop reading algos meant to piss you off. Stop comparing your life to success bros and IG models.
Go outside. Text a friend. Shut up and use the endless access to info and AI super intelligence you now have to SUCCEED rather than bitch and moan.
Nothing is stopping you from enjoying life except the perma-psychosis your phone and TV is giving you.
It's fine. Chill the f out.
10 HEALTHY THINGS THAT SHOULD BE PART OF YOUR MARRIAGE:
1. God
2. Communicate obsessively
3. Be intimate often
4. Be honest always
5. Forgive mistakes fast.
6. Root for your spouse to win
7. Make your marriage your top priority
8. Hold hands a lot
9. Pray together
10. Lift each other up
FOR HUSBANDS, regular sex in marriage communicates to him ...
“You love me.”
“You desire me.”
“I still matter to you.”
Many husbands interpret regular intimacy as a signal of "our relationship is healthy."
FOR WIVES: Sexual intimacy Is deeply tied to emotional safety: Sexual intimacy flows most freely when they feel emotionally secure—heard, valued, and cared for.
They want to be pursued outside the bedroom, not just sexually inside the bedroom.
Unlike a husband where sexual intimacy is often the starting point for emotional connection ... for her when she feels safe and connected, then her body wants to connect.
Whether you are the husband OR the wife, always try and see things from your spouse's viewpoint.
If your wife takes care of you, reward her, bro.
Don’t punish a good woman with silence, neglect, and cheap treatment.
She cooks, she respects you, she keeps the home, she stands with you, and some of you still don’t treat her right.
A good wife is rare.
If you mistreat her, you will lose her warmth first. Then you will lose her respect. Then you will lose the home.
God will not bless a man who keeps hurting a woman who is doing him right.
Take care of the one who takes care of you.
Glen Beck is right about everything, but his thoughts and theories stop where we are at right now.. we are at the “Precipice”, and those other civilizations did not have a conclusion that had a plan. They blindly played lemmings.
The life of a millennial:
- Graduated straight into the 2008 recession with a degree nobody was hiring for.
- Every entry level job somehow required 3 to 5 years of experience.
- Pensions vanished, replaced with a 401k and a “figure it out” attitude.
- A promotion meant a 3% raise and double the workload overnight.
- Finally felt stable in your early 30s, then a global pandemic hit everything at once.
- Inflation spiked to levels not seen in 40 years, quietly erasing every raise you’d gotten.
- Home prices doubled in half a decade, so renting stopped being a phase and became the plan.
- Childcare costs now rival a second rent payment every single month.
- Somewhere in there you’re also caring for aging parents, raising your own kids, and running on fumes.
- Now AI layoffs are hitting during what should be your highest earning years.
Too many people spend months planning the wedding and only hours planning the marriage.
Before you say "I do," discuss finances, parenting, faith, family, childhood baggage, intimacy, career goals, health, and how you'll raise your children.
Chemistry starts a relationship. Alignment is what keeps it together.
This is a really sad week.
But we just have to be grateful for so many years of joy we got from Dolly Parton, Tim Curry, and so many others no longer with us ♥️
You have to fall in love with her in different versions. The young her, the tired her, the pregnant her, the ambitious her, the difficult her, the woman she becomes with time. That’s the real secret.