Never ignore someone who genuinely makes an effort to stay in touch. A lot of people don’t care as much as you think, so when someone remembers to text, call or check in on you, give them your attention. Genuine effort is rare.
BLACK AMERICANS need to gate keep more. The entire fucking world wants to be us, wants a piece of us. Want to fucking feel what it feels like to be a nigga. It’s terrifying.
If you're a grown ass man who can't cook, clean, or handle basic chores, you're not "traditional" you’re just useless and a burden. Depending on women for survival isn't masculine. It's embarrassing. Basic life skills arent gendered, grow tf up.