I don’t know who needs to hear this but start living and enjoying your life. the world is getting crazier by the day and all you do is work, pay bills and over think things you can’t change.
Take a trip. Treat yourself. You deserve it.
i was never a leaver. when i love, i stay. i fight, i try, i give everything i can. i don’t walk away just because things get hard, and i don’t disappear when feelings get real. i’ve always been the type who holds on, not the one who lets someone go. if i stepped back, it wasn’t because i wanted to leave. it was because i had no place left to stay. and even then, it wasn’t easy. letting go never felt like relief, it felt like losing a part of myself. but i stayed true to who i am, even when it meant hurting quietly. because for me, love has never been about leaving. it’s always been about staying until staying is no longer an option.
A NARCISSIST will calmly BAIT you and BAIT you and BAIT you, until you snap. Then rally support & sympathy from their 'flying monkeys' by telling them what you did, claiming you are the NARCISSIST.
I hate the misconception that introverts don’t like talking. If you’re the right person, we’ll talk to you for hours on end about pretty much anything. However, it’s incredibly difficult to find the right people, so for the most part we’ll probably just stay quiet.
Cut off narcissists without hesitation. No second thoughts, no delay, no empathy. They are the most dangerous parasites for mental health. Cut them off. Now.
Malignant narcissists have a way of making even the kindest, healthiest people start to believe they’re bad. They’ll spot your best qualities—your kindness, your integrity, your calm—and twist them into flaws. Kindness becomes “manipulative.” Integrity becomes “self-righteous.” Calmness becomes “cold” or “uncaring.”
They’ll keep poking and provoking you until you finally react, and the second you do, they hold it up as proof that you were never as good as you seemed. Then they repeat that message over and over, in different ways, until you start doubting yourself.
Along the way, they work to isolate you so you have fewer people to remind you who you really are. And with the constant stress and self-doubt, you eventually feel so worn down that their version of you starts to feel more real than your own. That’s the real cruelty—not just convincing others you’re bad, but convincing you.
When you are in a relationship with a Narcissist, there is always a whole secret life going on behind your back. This secret life can be emotionally draining and devastating to discover. Narcissists often lead double lives, presenting a facade to their partner while secretly engaging in manipulative and exploitative behavior
you ever become so emotionally drained that even replying to people who genuinely care about you starts feeling difficult because your mind is just exhausted from carrying too much for too long
i think what really broke me wasn’t the lack of love. it was the lack of consistency. never fully knowing where i stood slowly destroyed my ability to feel calm
no one talks about how hard it is when your mood is constantly switching between “its okay, i don't care. i'm fine” and “i don't know how much more i can take”.
You have a past, I have a past, so does everyone. But those days are gone. What matters is where we go from here. Eyes up darlin, the sun's coming, & you, you're gonna be spectacular
My relationship with my ex completely changed me. Before him, I dove into love with complete abandon, like a trust fall, not thinking twice. After him, I run away from all and any potential love, second guessing everything, trusting nothing. I’ve lost my ability to be vulnerable.
Narcissistic men always seek new women.
Not healing. Not accountability. Not inner work. Just a fresh start with someone who doesn’t know the script yet.
Nothing more attractive than a man who love you enough to care about how his actions gonna effect you, a man who loves you out loud, a man who helps you grow as a person, who does nice things for you without you asking, who admits he wants you & never makes you feel unwanted.
You deserve more than you often accept.
Stop settling for people who don’t value your presence.
Your energy is rare, your heart is real.
Recognize your worth before expecting others to.
Respect yourself enough to walk away.
Their disrespect is your closure. Their ghosting is your closure. They play the victim to make you the villain in their story is your closure. Their lack of accountability is your closure. The closure is in accepting that you deserve better and choosing to move on without them.