Besok-besok gak boleh terlalu excited sm siapa pun ya. Harus inget, manusia punya titik mengecewakan.
Excited boleh, tapi jgn sampe lupa jadi cermin. Cukup lakuin sebatas apa yg mereka lakuin ke kamu. Jgn kasih lebih ke orang yg bahkan gak pernah ngasih hal yg sama.
Yang sekarang ada.. bukan kekal ada… sorang2 akan tinggalkan kau. Semua ada benefits masing2.. takda yg ikhlas… takda yg jujur… tapi lantak la… bukan masalah aku. Kifarah…
May a soul who isn’t sure about me never find their way back to me again. I don’t want to be someone’s uncertainty, temporary comfort, or “maybe.” May I only be found by people who are certain about my place in their life and intentional about keeping me there.
Real love is when two people really choose each other and stand on it. You don’t have to keep asking for effort, wondering where you stand, or guessing if they still care. They make time, they communicate, they stay solid, and they don’t switch up when life gets real. That’s the type of love I respect. The kind you can actually feel without having to keep asking for it.
Kalau orang tahu benda tu menyakitkan kita tapi still go on buat macam nothing happen, dia yang tak cut off.. tapi kita yang terus disalahkan.. so tahu laa tempat kita dekat mana. Dia dah pilih jaga hati siapa.. kenapa kita nak terhegeh2 terus rasa diri penting.
Peluk jauh untuk mereka yang sedang in a phase of trying to make peace with all the disappointment, without having to blame anyone for the pain they’re feeling. Itu memang salah satu tahap paling berat dalam life, but trust me and believe, you will get through this.